Russian girl explained how Russian husband is better than Finnish
In the nearly three decades since the liquidation of the Iron Curtain, many Russians went abroad and started families with citizens of other states. The greatest interest among Russian women who want to marry a foreigner is traditionally caused by European countries - it is believed that with Europeans, especially Scandinavians, Germans and Western Slavs, we have far less cultural differences than with Arabs, Turks or Asians.
Since Finland is one of our closest neighbors, and there have been close ties between the countries for a long time, it is not surprising that in this snowy Scandinavian country there are a sufficient number of Russians who have married Finns. A high standard of living, good incomes, beautiful nature, social guarantees - all this attracts Russians in Finland. Men from this country are considered enviable grooms, but those compatriots who married Finns pay attention to the many differences between the hot Finnish guys and our men.
Russian men are more romantic. Diana, who married a Finnish citizen six years ago, still cannot get used to the almost complete absence of romance in relations. She loves her husband Altti very much, but still cannot get used to the fact that he almost does not show his feelings, especially in public. He even gave flowers only a couple of times, and even then at the urgent request of his wife.
In Finland, family and friendships play a much smaller role. People are individualistic in nature, therefore it is very difficult for Russian women to get used to such a model of life. The average Russian man is trying to maintain good relations with his relatives - and not only with his mother and father, but also with his brothers and sisters, including cousins and second cousins. For our women, family and family ties are even more important, which is why they don’t understand how the Finns may simply not communicate with their relatives.
For a Russian person, friendship is not an empty phrase, but friends are always welcome in the house. The Finnish man appreciates personal space very much and will not tolerate the frequent and unreasonable presence of strangers, even friends, in his apartment. They meet friends in a cafe; they try not to devote them to many nuances of life. As a result, women have an idea of their husbands as closed and limited people, not capable of friendship. In this regard, Russian men, of course, win much.
But Russian men, unlike the Finns, are more traditional. Most of our people are convinced that a woman should keep the house clean, cook, take care of children. Not so in Finland. A Russian woman can be very surprised by a husband who goes on parental leave and tells his wife: you can work.
But for the Finnish men, the trust they have in women is very valuable. The Finns are really less inclined to scenes of jealousy, a ban on communicating with male friends, and control over money expenses than Russians. But after all, the family budget is formed equally in Finnish families - there are rarely families in which the husband would support his wife, and in Russia this is very close.
As for the painful issue of alcohol for many of our ladies, the Finns, as we know, drink no less than Russians. True, in Finland there are many absolute teetotalers and many Finnish men pay very much attention to a healthy lifestyle - proper nutrition, sports, physical activity.
From emphasized attention to the female sex of Finnish men weaned feminism, which in the Scandinavian countries is in special honor. And it is he who is one of the main reasons for Finnish men to search for wives for themselves in other countries. By the way, Russia and Thailand lead in the number of brides in the Finnish marriage market. We are closer culturally and racially, Thai women are known for their humility and obedience.
When marrying a foreigner, a Russian woman should seriously think. The difference in mentality, behavioral stereotypes, and even life values is too great to be overlooked. No matter how full and comfortable life would be in Finland, in huge Russia you can find "your" man almost any woman.
Since Finland is one of our closest neighbors, and there have been close ties between the countries for a long time, it is not surprising that in this snowy Scandinavian country there are a sufficient number of Russians who have married Finns. A high standard of living, good incomes, beautiful nature, social guarantees - all this attracts Russians in Finland. Men from this country are considered enviable grooms, but those compatriots who married Finns pay attention to the many differences between the hot Finnish guys and our men.
Russian men are more romantic. Diana, who married a Finnish citizen six years ago, still cannot get used to the almost complete absence of romance in relations. She loves her husband Altti very much, but still cannot get used to the fact that he almost does not show his feelings, especially in public. He even gave flowers only a couple of times, and even then at the urgent request of his wife.
In Finland, family and friendships play a much smaller role. People are individualistic in nature, therefore it is very difficult for Russian women to get used to such a model of life. The average Russian man is trying to maintain good relations with his relatives - and not only with his mother and father, but also with his brothers and sisters, including cousins and second cousins. For our women, family and family ties are even more important, which is why they don’t understand how the Finns may simply not communicate with their relatives.
For a Russian person, friendship is not an empty phrase, but friends are always welcome in the house. The Finnish man appreciates personal space very much and will not tolerate the frequent and unreasonable presence of strangers, even friends, in his apartment. They meet friends in a cafe; they try not to devote them to many nuances of life. As a result, women have an idea of their husbands as closed and limited people, not capable of friendship. In this regard, Russian men, of course, win much.
But Russian men, unlike the Finns, are more traditional. Most of our people are convinced that a woman should keep the house clean, cook, take care of children. Not so in Finland. A Russian woman can be very surprised by a husband who goes on parental leave and tells his wife: you can work.
But for the Finnish men, the trust they have in women is very valuable. The Finns are really less inclined to scenes of jealousy, a ban on communicating with male friends, and control over money expenses than Russians. But after all, the family budget is formed equally in Finnish families - there are rarely families in which the husband would support his wife, and in Russia this is very close.
As for the painful issue of alcohol for many of our ladies, the Finns, as we know, drink no less than Russians. True, in Finland there are many absolute teetotalers and many Finnish men pay very much attention to a healthy lifestyle - proper nutrition, sports, physical activity.
From emphasized attention to the female sex of Finnish men weaned feminism, which in the Scandinavian countries is in special honor. And it is he who is one of the main reasons for Finnish men to search for wives for themselves in other countries. By the way, Russia and Thailand lead in the number of brides in the Finnish marriage market. We are closer culturally and racially, Thai women are known for their humility and obedience.
When marrying a foreigner, a Russian woman should seriously think. The difference in mentality, behavioral stereotypes, and even life values is too great to be overlooked. No matter how full and comfortable life would be in Finland, in huge Russia you can find "your" man almost any woman.
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